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Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Distant Friends

Leslie Ann Woods

Obituary

RACINE - Leslie Ann (Nee: Lawson) Woods, 56, passed away at home surrounded by her family on January 3, 2014. Beloved wife of Ralph Woods. Daughter of Louann (Nee: Rezabek) Lawson and the late Harold Lawson. Mother of Jennifer (Joshua) Mohr, Jessica (Jonathan) Knoll and Caroline Woods. Grandmother of Jonathan, Joshua and Julia Mohr and Mackenzie Knoll. Sister to Christopher and Jeffrey Lawson. Ralph and Leslie met and fell in love at Northern Illinois University. They spent several years as residents in Illinois, where all three of their children were born. In 1989, they moved to Racine, Wisconsin where they raised their family and made many cherished friends. To celebrate her life with all who loved her, there will be visitations in both states, as well as a memorial service and reception held in Racine. A visitation will take place at Trinity United Methodist Church, 3825 Erie Street, on Saturday, January 11 at 1 p.m. A memorial service celebrating her life will begin at 2 p.m. Following the service, a reception will be held at the Harbor Lite Yacht Club, 559 State Street, from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that donations be made to the BloodCenter Research Foundation, PO Box 2178, Milwaukee, WI 53201. Purath-Strand Funeral Home 3915 Douglas Ave. Racine, WI 53402 (262) 639-8000

A few days ago, I got a call from a college friend who I talk to a couple of times a year. He keeps up with a lot of the old gang and always has the latest news. But I was not prepared when he said, 'Hi, Steve, it's Joe. Leslie Woods died.'

I was instantly taken back to 1976 and the dorms at NIU where we all met and shared a camaraderie of music, dating, partying, and partaking of all the opportunities and new experiences before us. I thought of sweet Ralph, a laid back guy who liked nothing better than playing Crosby, Stills on his acoustic guitar. I remember the first time Ralph introduced me to Leslie as his girlfriend and thinking, 'Luc-key.' I thought of their children, and apparently grandchildren who will miss her.

Then Joe also mentioned that another dear friend in California was very sick with throat cancer. Joe himself lost a leg last year to diabetes. He asked me how I was doing, and I told him, 'Still in a wheelchair and a lot of pain.' He said, 'Wow, I wonder if we're all paying the piper for all the things we used to do'? I said, 'Do you think that's it'? and he replied, 'I don't know.'

I really don't think that's it, but we're actually not that old. We're all in our 50's, theoretically, years until retirement, to say nothing of the so-called 'golden years.' I guess 50 is the new 90.

This is what I wrote in Leslie's Guest Book: 
Sadly, it has been many years since I met Leslie in the dorms at NIU. I remember her being every bit as beautiful and more than this picture. It is my loss that I fell out of touch with such lovely friends, and as is often the way in life, now it is too late. My deepest condolences to Ralph and their children and family. With sincere affection, Steve "Dunlovie" Dunn


Tuesday, January 7, 2014

704 Hauser Street

This was written 35 years ago while I was at Northern Illinois University on another bitterly cold day. You will note that although classes were cancelled, and cars would not start, we still managed to get to the liquor store. It was a ritual that anyone on our floor that was not at class would gather to do a few afternoon bongs and watch reruns of the ground breaking sitcom..

Waiting For All In The Family

A quarter to two
And nothing to do
I'm waiting for “All In The Family”
It's fifty below
The cars will not go
I'm waiting for “All In The Family”
No classes today
We all shout 'Hurray!'
I'm waiting for “All In The Family”
My roommate is bored
What to do Lord
I'm waiting for “All In The Family”
A run to the store
To buy some liquor
I'm waiting for “All In The Family”
Skateboard down the hall
With nary a fall
I'm waiting for “All In The Family”
Rock & roll pounding
The volume astounding
I'm waiting for “All In The Family”
No one's got grass
That's a bite in the ass
I'm waiting for “All In The Family”
Fifteen minutes have passed
Time sure goes fast
It's now time for “All In The Family”

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Post Holiday Stress Disorder (PHSD)

The world is a very nasty place. I don't profess to understand it, but there are a lot of completely amoral, vicious, power mad people out there, consumed with greed. These people enjoy inflicting pain, some acting out of cold calculation, and some out of white-hot rage. Some wear suits, some wear gang colors, some wear uniforms. The one thing they all have in common is that they are truly evil.

I often ask myself, do the good people outnumber the bad? I just don't know. There are a lot of honestly good people trying to make a difference. There are a lot of bad people who cause a lot of pain. There are a lot of people who just want to be left alone. But unfortunately, in my experience, the vast majority of people around the world are just ignorant, self-serving, petty, mean-spirited bastards.

We need armed forces to guard against individuals and regimes who have and are plotting again to breach our shores with malice aforethought to murder and maim innocent civilians. We need a police force to counteract the endless horde of monsters among us.

They are the thin blue and desert camo line that separate civilization from chaos.

I am not against authority. I am against the abuse of authority.

I firmly believe that we can keep the dogs of war and the wolves at our door at bay, and still maintain a nation based on the principals of freedom enumerated in the Declaration of Independence and the civil liberties, and the rights and protections granted by the Constitution of the United States of America.

I will be expounding on these issues throughout the coming year, and as always, I will be keeping an open mind, gladly admitting my errors in judgement, fact, and opinion. So feel free to weigh in and point out whenever and wherever I am wrong-headed.

Happy 2014!

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Tread Gladly Into the New Year

Minnie Louise Haskins (1875 – 1957) was an academic in the fields of sociology and philosophy. Haskins taught from 1919 to 1944 at the London School of Economics, where previously she had herself been a student. Her teaching career began at the end of the First World War and ended just before the close of the Second World War.

Despite being principally a scholar, Haskins enjoyed writing poetry, and in 1908, as part of a collection named The Desert, her poem "God Knows," which would come to be more popularly known as "The Gate of the Year," was published. It is amongst the most quoted poetic works of the twentieth century, and its words are engraved on the entrance to the King George VI Memorial Chapel at Windsor Castle.

The King's Speech is a 2010 film and British historical drama. Colin Firth plays His Highness Prince Albert of York who, to cope with a stammer, sees an Australian speech and language therapist. Price Albert's elder brother ascended the throne as Edward VIII upon the death of their father in 1936. However, later that year Edward revealed his desire to marry the divorced American socialite Wallis Simpson. For political and religious reasons he could not marry Simpson and remain king. Edward abdicated in order to marry, and Prince Albert ascended the throne.

At the 83rd Academy Awards, The King's Speech won the Academy Award for Best Picture, Best Director - Tom Hooper, Best Actor (Firth), and Best Original Screenplay - David Seidler.

Albert Frederick Arthur George of the House of Windsor became George VI, King of the United Kingdom and the Dominions of the British Commonwealth on December 11th, 1936 until his death on February 6th, 1952. He was the last Emperor of India and the first Head of the Commonwealth.

In the darkest years of World War II, King George VI carried on the tradition of delivering a radio message at Christmastime to the English people. The date was December 25th, 1939. He was some minutes into his address when he was handed a copy of the poem by his thirteen year old daughter, Princess Elizabeth, who would be crowned Queen Elizabeth II upon his death.


Miss Haskins did not know that the King would quote her words, and did not hear the broadcast. The next day, she was interviewed by The Daily Telegraph and said "I heard the quotation read in a summary of the speech. I thought the words sounded familiar and suddenly it dawned on me that they were out of my little book."

This is what he read:
"I said to the man who stood at the gate of the year, Give me a light that I may tread safely into the unknown. And he replied, Go out into the darkness and put your hand into the hand of God. That shall be to you better than light and safer than a known way."

The King's Speech


Sunday, December 29, 2013

Bury My Heart With a Stake of Holly Through It

The Badlands exist as a testament to the Almighty's twisted sense of humor. Gullies easy to scramble down into but impossible to scramble back out of. Colors from a dreamscape by daylight and a nightmarescape by moonlight. Where a young boy startled leaps over a rattlesnake sunbathing on a path. Where to step ten feet from your door is to be hopelessly lost. Where a dazzling array of wildflowers carpets the desert. Where an entire nation can remain hidden from the soldiers who hunt them. Where the voices of ten thousand ghosts whisper among the rocks.




Our family took a car trip to South Dakota in the early 90's. The boys were too young to appreciate the history, but just the right age to enjoy the fresh air, climbing and exploring. We visited Wall Drug and the Corn Palace, basically tourist traps. We spent an afternoon at the Rapid City Reptile Gardens. We stopped at Deadwood, which was indeed dead wood. We took the Homestake Gold Mine tour at Lead, the tours through Wind Cave and the majestic Jewel Cave, the tour of Boot Hill where I saw a grave with my father's name carved on the headstone.

We spent a day at Custer State Park, dining in the magnificent lodge (which was fully booked and out of our price range), photographed the bison, and fed apples to the wild burros. We saw Mount Rushmore, awe-inspiring at both sunrise and sunset (do not miss the evening program). We went inside a furnished sod house (Google it) and stood in the middle of a prairie dog town where I swear the denizens were laughing as they played catch me if you can with our boys.




We came very close to having our van pushed off the side of a cliff by a very pissed off buffalo. The park rangers emphasized again and again that the bison were not friendly, did not like to be approached, that these were powerful wild animals, and that they could be VERY dangerous. As we were cruising one of the park roads, we spied a dirt turnoff that went up the side of a hill. Some little ways up the road was a lone buffalo resting in the shade. I figured what a great photo-op that would be, so with my wife and kids in the car, I proceeded up the incline and stopped next to the solitary creature. I rolled down my window and started snapping some pictures. He was clearly annoyed at the intrusion and started grunting and snorting.

It occurred to me that he was off by himself for a reason, and I immediately thought that discretion was the better part of valor, and that a hasty retreat was in order. The one thing I didn't reckon on was that there was no place to turn around. I drove a little farther up the road but quickly realized that going forward was impossible, so I started backing down the hill. I had my window open so I could glance behind me, and when I got back down to the spot where the buffalo was laying, I discovered that he was now standing, as tall and heavy as our vehicle, and was staring me right in the eye. If looks could kill, I would have been turned to stone on the spot as a monument to numbskulls.




We ended our vacation by staying for several days at the Cedar Pass Lodge, the only motel within Badlands National Park. We actually rented one of the stand alone cabins, and it was the highlight of our South Dakota adventure. To step out our door and literally be in the heart of the badlands was to be close to the heart of the Creator.

One morning we decided to take a detour to see the Wounded Knee Memorial. It was actually a longer drive than expected, and when we got there, it didn't look like much. Just a bare flat-topped hill surrounded by a lot of dirt. We parked in a dusty lot across the road and trudged up the path. I was not prepared for what happened when I stepped foot onto the plateau.

I do not want to turn you away when I say that a feeling of profound spirituality enveloped me. The Wounded Knee Memorial is a very strange place. When you walk up, you pass under an arch, topped by, of all things, a small cross. There are some graves, a carved list of Indian names on a plaque, a fenced off monument, and a few bunches of desiccated flowers. Looking out in 360 degrees, the sense of loneliness, emptiness and isolation are overwhelming. The knowledge of something lost is almost unbearable. I am not going to try to explain further, because I can't.




Today's date marks the anniversary of the massacre at Wounded Knee. As described by Wikipedia, in the years prior to the massacre, the U.S. Government had continued to seize the Lakota's lands. The once large bison herds had been hunted to near-extinction by European settlers. Treaty promises to protect reservation lands from encroachment by settlers and gold miners were not implemented as dictated by treaty. As a result, there was unrest on the reservations. It was during this time that news spread among the reservations of a Paiute prophet named Wovoka, founder of the Ghost Dance religion. He had a vision that the Christian Messiah, Jesus Christ, had returned to earth in the form of a Native American.

The Messiah would raise all the Native American believers above the earth. During this time the white man would disappear from Native lands, the buffalo herds and all the other animals would return in abundance, and the ghosts of their ancestors would return to earth — hence the word "Ghost" in "Ghost Dance". They would then return to earth to live in peace. All this would be brought about by performance of the "Ghost Dance." Lakota ambassadors to Wovoka, Kicking Bear and Short Bull taught the Lakota that while performing the Ghost Dance, they would wear special Ghost Dance shirts as seen by Black Elk in a vision. Kicking Bear said the shirts had the power to repel bullets.




The Wounded Knee Massacre occurred on December 29, 1890, on the Lakota Pine Ridge Indian Reservation in what is now the state South Dakota. It was the last battle of the American Indian Wars. On the day before, a detachment of the U.S. 7th Cavalry Regiment commanded by Major Samuel M. Whitside intercepted Spotted Elk's band of Miniconjou Lakota and 38 Hunkpapa Lakota near Porcupine Butte and escorted them five miles westward to Wounded Knee Creek, where they made camp. The remainder of the 7th Cavalry Regiment arrived, led by Colonel James W. Forsyth and surrounded the encampment supported by four Hotchkiss guns.

On the morning of December 29, the troops went into the camp to disarm the Lakota. One version of events claims that during the process of disarming the Lakota, a deaf tribesman named Black Coyote was reluctant to give up his rifle, claiming he had paid a lot for it. A scuffle over Black Coyote's rifle escalated and a shot was fired which resulted in the 7th Cavalry's opening fire indiscriminately from all sides, killing men, women, and children, as well as some of their own fellow soldiers. Those few Lakota warriors who still had weapons began shooting back at the attacking soldiers, who quickly suppressed the Lakota fire. The surviving Lakota fled, but U.S. cavalrymen pursued and killed many who were unarmed.

By the time it was over, at least 150 men, women, and children of the Lakota had been killed and 51 wounded. Twenty-five soldiers also died, and 39 were wounded. At least twenty soldiers were awarded the Medal of Honor.


Capable of firing an explosive shell or canister shot every six seconds, the Hotchkiss 1.65" Mountain Gun was a light artillery piece with a range of 2 miles. The canister shot produced a fan shaped spread of thirty lead balls, and was particularly devastating at close range. Four of these were used at Wounded Knee.

Soon after the event, Dewey Beard, his brother Joseph Horn Cloud and others formed the Wounded Knee Survivors Association, which came to include descendants. They sought compensation from the US government for the many fatalities and injured. Today the association is independent and works to preserve and protect the historic site from exploitation, and to administer any memorial erected there. Papers of the association (1890–1973) and related materials are held by the University of South Dakota and are available for research. It was not until the 1990s that a memorial to the Lakota was included in the National Historic Landmark.

Black Elk (1863–1950) a Lakota medicine man later stated:
"I did not know then how much was ended. When I look back now from this high hill of my old age, I can still see the butchered women and children lying heaped and scattered all along the crooked gulch as plain as when I saw them with eyes young. And I can see that something else died there in the bloody mud, and was buried in the blizzard. A people's dream died there. It was a beautiful dream ... the nation's hope is broken and scattered. There is no center any longer, and the sacred tree is dead."
Following is a link to a seventeen minute video about the tragedy using archival footage - it is very moving. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0EdRT56WK7Q

In 1992, Buffy Sainte-Marie released her song entitled "Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee," on her Coincidence and Likely Stories album. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rK83Pl8NZOA

 

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Making Merry

I am behind my time. Another Christmas has come and gone. I'm sorry I wasn't online yesterday to wish all my friends and family a Merry Christmas, and to respond to all the Christmas posts and statuses I received, but I was making rather merry. It shan't be repeated.

This was the best, or at least the most active, holiday season I've had in many years. Plays, concerts, shows, movies, Christmas tree festivals, craft fairs, and visiting with family and friends. I thoroughly enjoyed all the different decorations. My friends Josette and Bill did their home in "country pinecone," and the ambiance was so warm and cozy that I didn't want to leave. My son and in-laws have a parlour right off the front entrance with lovely floral-print furniture, and this is where they placed their beautiful tree with all the heirloom ornaments. Of course they had a train set up under the tree, and the room took me right back to the Victorian age.

The season was filled with fabulous food, drink, music, presents, and charity as we sent in donations to several worthy causes and dropped coins in kettles wherever we went shopping.

I got to publish my extensive Christmas blog, and share some of my favorite holiday pictures, songs, quotes, and links to movies and TV shows from my childhood on Facebook. I hope you all took advantage of and enjoyed these posts.

Now we have a few days to rest and reflect before we bid leave to an interesting year filled with sorrow and joy, and bid welcome to the new one. So me dearies, a belated Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!



Recollecting the Moment

Well, so that is that. Now we must dismantle the tree, putting the decorations back into their cardboard boxes, some have gotten broken, and carrying them up to the attic. The holly and the mistletoe must be taken down and burnt, and the children got ready for school. There are enough leftovers to do, warmed-up, for the rest of the week, not that we have much appetite, having drunk such a lot, stayed up so late, attempted, quite unsuccessfully, to love all our relatives, and in general grossly overestimated our powers. 




Once again as in previous years we have seen the actual Vision and failed. The promising Child who cannot keep His word for long. The Christmas Feast is already a fading memory, and already the mind begins to be vaguely aware of an unpleasant whiff of apprehension at the thought of Lent and Good Friday which cannot, after all, now be very far off. But, for the time being, here we all are, back in the moderate Aristotelian city, and the kitchen table exists because I scrub it. The Child, however dimly, however incredulously, The Time Being is, in a sense, the most trying time of all. For the innocent children who whispered so excitedly outside the locked door where they knew the presents to be, grew up when it opened.




Now, recollecting that moment, we can repress the joy, but the guilt remains conscious, remembering the stable where for once in our lives everything became a You and nothing was an It. And craving the sensation but ignoring the cause, we look round for something, no matter what, to inhibit our self-reflection, and the obvious thing for that purpose would be some great suffering. So, once we have met the Son, we are tempted ever to pray to the Father, "lead us into temptation and evil for our sake," they will come, alright, don't worry, probably in a form that we do not expect and certainly with a force more dreadful than we can imagine.




In the meantime there are bills to be paid, machines to keep in repair, irregular verbs to learn, the Time Being to redeem from insignificance. The happy morning is over, the night of agony still to come, the time is noon, when the Spirit must practice his scales of rejoicing without even a hostile audience, and the Soul endure a silence that is neither for nor against her faith that God's Will will be done, that in spite of her prayers, God will cheat no one, not even the world of its triumph.

Christmas Oratorio by W.H. Auden