I have so many amazing online friends, with so many varied interests. My older son is a futurist. He believes that technology will make the world a better place. He sends me links to stories about medical nanotechnology, thorium reactors, artificial intelligence, synthetic biology, 3-D graphine computer chips, and digital-human interfaces, NONE of which I understand. My younger son is an info-warrior and sends me links to stories about every conceivable government and shadow government conspiracy theory out there. I am friends with many gen-x-ers, and I feel their rage and frustration and they send me links to stories about everything that's going on in the world, and everything that's going wrong. Also, I have my own sources of news that keep me ultra informed and on top of developing stories.
I try to read as many as I can, and still find time to write. There are so many stories, but I keep reminding myself, I am not a media company, I simply write a blog for my own entertainment and for my grandchildren to have something to remember me by as they get older and I am gone. And of course for anyone else who's interested. In short, as I lay here flat on my back and in terrible pain, I see a world of tremendous hope and tremendous fear.
I have always remembered one thing that a writing professor of mine told me, that art is the selection of images, not the hoarding of images. So by necessity and design, I am selective in what I write about. In college I studied classic and modern literature and poetry (professionals write poems, amateurs write poetry), the mechanics of writing, speech and debate, and the importance of organization. It is said that a picture is worth a thousand words, but I have found that a word creates a thousand pictures.
One of my friends, a very sexy lady who suffers from the same neurological disease that I do, and lives near the beach in LA, recently sent me a link to the following story:
Just the other day, I was asked by a reporter what my favorite word was. Seems like a fairly simple question, right? Let me tell you just how un-simple this seemingly simplistic question really is.
Immediately, the word Evan blurted from my mouth. I love everything about what the word Evan means to me. I love how it sounds, I love how saying Evan makes me feel and clearly I love Evan. The reporter told me, “besides a name, give me your favorite word.”
So many different words came shooting through my mind, and it was nearly impossible for me to choose just one. Take a moment and think about it: Can you come up with your favorite word in the blink of an eye?
Beautiful, amazing, serenity, eternal … these words have such deep and profound meanings. They literally almost have a physical effect on me when I think about them.
Chalupa, bliss, serendipitous, Aborigine … all amazingly fun words to say out loud. Really, say them out loud three times fast and tell me that wasn’t a great time.
Family, laughter, peace … these words bring a certain personal comfort, and I love how they make me feel.
LOVE.
Suddenly, I realized the word love encompasses all of these words for me. I strive for love to be at the root of all things in my life, and I realized that LOVE is my favorite word.
So, what’s in a word? For me they’re filled with emotion, comfort and inspiration. Words have power — so use them wisely.
What’s your favorite word?
By Jenny McCarthy
Well said, Jenny. Well said.
"Uh hum. My eyes are up here..."
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